20 Honest Thoughts From Bigger Girls Dating Smaller Guys. Being female in today's societies comes loaded with physical expectations. We have to be skinny, .
On her blog, Plus Size PrincessCeCe Olisa has detailed dating big from what it's like to be the only big black girl in a yoga class fine, thanks! I kept my standards high started dating a Dwyane Wade look-a-like. That a woman must be smaller than the man she's with. As a big girl, I work so hard to manage my body image issues and I work even harder not to let those girls ruin my relationships. Most of us are sitting here with so much love and positivity to give, but instead of focusing on our beauty, wherever it lies, we absorb all the snide remarks and snickers from insecure people and let that dictate our dating decisions.